Meet me at Macys.

Gentleman, looking for some classic styles?
Check out Macys.com. Since Macys is not considered a mecca for larger sizes, inventory sits and is discounted to your benefit. Take for example, the blk heritage sports coat by Ralph Lauren pictured to the left, retails at $285.00, currently selling at $199.00. If you have a girlfriend, ask her about Macys rewards and watch as the clouds part. Given the right strategy, you could purchase the sportcoat for well under $150.00, plus free shipping. The coat is available in larger sizes and will never go out of style, money well spent.

Burlington Coat Factory

Check out the Burlington Coat Factory in North Riverside, large selection of men's clothing. It will take some work due to the racks and racks of clothing, but my true clothes whores will be up to the challenge. If you are not in the mood to comb through the piles of clothing(literally), head towards the back left.
I have yet to visit the remaining BCFs in the area, so if you know of one that caters to the big-bone men, please speak up. We need as many resources as possible. Also, can someone please come up with a new moniker for us. I am utterly tired of "Big and Tall". Once again, if you have any suggestions, I am all ears.

Ebay

As you endlessly scour the internet and local retailers for style, try Ebay. As an accessory aficionado, Ebay has become quite the oasis for me. They have categorized appropriate clothing as "Big and Tall", but don't let that limit your search. I have found some great finds among the ordinaries (and I say ordinaries due to their lack of extroidinary stature) such as socks, ties, scarves, hats, tee shirts, belts, and the so on. Rather inexpensively priced from trusted and not so credible sellers, so beware. It is a human built, human powered system, so do your homework to curtail shady transactions. If you find something worth mentioning, take a pic and send it in. I would be more than happy to post it.

The new blankie

Oh how I miss my blankie, so warm and snuggly. I never felt alone as a child. Fortunately, as an adult I have my cellphone. Cellphones are the adult version of a blankie, security in the palm of your hand. As you sit on the train or basically anywhere in public, notice the amount of people on their cellphones. Are they really in demand or do they not want to be perceived as being alone? I have done it before, searched for someone to call. How about you? Have you found yourself pulling out your cellphone to mask that lonely feeling? Possibly on a train or even at home? Have you ever seen the cellphone effect in action? Watch as one person pulls out their cellphone, then another, and another, and so on...like drones. I have a tendecy to become attached to my cellphone and also to detest it...depends on self-time. I set it down when I have not had enough time to myself, which is usually more times than not.

Philosophy II

For some, adhere to these words and you will thank me..."So many people tiptoe through life, so carefully, to arrive safely at death." Or the more personal version being," I refuse to tiptoe through life just to arrive safely at death." The former describing many people and the latter being what many aspire too. Whatever the reasoning, to never challenge your position, nor turn your back on fear, limits the scope of a person's existence. When it is all said and done, life is essentially a culmination of moments, whether good or bad, they will be what is remembered as we take our last breath. It is up to the individual to ensure that breath is not of regret, but of contentment. It beckons to the small measure of recklessness needed to live an unlikely life.

Socks

When it comes to clothing it is a woman's world. Go to the mall with the wife or girlfriend and prepare to hold her purse while she trots from store to store. As men, our style options are limited. As far as business attire, I hope you are not afraid of tight spaces because there is no room to break out. My closet is like a box of 64 crayons and I still look like everyone else at work. One area of relief is socks. Yes, socks are our saviour. Ok, a little dramatic, but socks can add a nice twist to any ensemble and/or be a means of expression. Where to find socks? Try Ebay, Marshalls, Macys, or any other discounter. If you wear them, they will come.

Getting Older

I just recently turned 31, as of Jan. 26th of this year. And I know many of us have negative feelings about getting older, but it has been an favorable experience for me. I am thoroughly enjoying growing into my own; the confidence, the knowledge, the patience, the stability, and the desire to make everything count. Oh, one more thing, the weight! For years I hovered between 250 and 300 lbs. Now, I float between 245 and 254 lbs., a much smaller fluctutation. It has definitely improved my outlook on purchasing clothes. If you know like I know, 20 lbs. is a size up, which makes purchasing a shirt difficult. I would literally have two wardrobes, smaller Karleton and larger Karleton. Now, its stable Karleton, which allows me to spend a little money on clothing that compliments my frame. This getting old shit isn's so bad. Of course, I could do without the gray hair, but Walgreens has me covered.